November 3, 2017

You can be a HOT speaker - but without the right marketing tools, you're not going to get those gigs you want.

You need to be able to promote yourself to events' organizers, corporates and anywhere else you want to contribute and do so professionally.

One way to do that...

October 4, 2017

My promise to you about this e-book is that:


I'll show you exactly how you can, as an executive, entrepreneur, attorney or aspiring speaker become confident, persuasive and powerful as a public speaker in the board...

July 29, 2016

I am:  a Woman, Man, Speaker, Artist, Doctor, Accountant, white, black, tall, short, slim, fat, gay, straight, mother, father, son, daughter... and the list of labels we attribute to how we identify with 'self' continues.

But is that who we really are?


July 29, 2016

We've all experienced heart break or suffered loss at some time in our lives.  Whether it's been through a break-up, loss of a loved one, a pet or meeting disappointment and perceived failure. 

Sadly, we've been conditioned to believe that sadness, grief and tears...

Chocolate, sex, music, wine, a crackling fire, hot bubble bath with candles...

We are ultimately wired for pleasure. Through taste, touch, sight, hearing, smell and that glorious sixth sense of deeply feeling in our being, we are able to dip into some of the most delici...

July 13, 2016

How quickly are you able to learn something new? 

Does it seem to take you longer than others to learn new knowledge, skill or abilities?

We all ‘map’ out the world through our sensory receptors in order for us to make ‘sense’ of our reality.

It’s this ‘map’ that informs...

June 30, 2016

After over 1 1/2 months of struggling to sort out a simple banking issue through conventional methods with no luck, I decided to shoot this short video for my bank to get their attention and make my voice heard so that I could solve a problem!

Why did I choose video??


June 21, 2016

Ever recorded your voice or featured in a family home movie and cringed at

how you think you sound?

Ever said - oh my word is that really my voice???!!!

Well don't feel alone!  It's happened to the best of us.

When I first left my hometown Vereeniging in South Africa...

May 30, 2016


Ever looked at a brilliant speaker and thought – how’d they do that?!  


It’s as if when they open their mouths they light up the room, they’re articulate and the audience hangs on their every word!


I’m often asked, what’s the secret that makes some Presenters so engag...

May 23, 2016


How easy is it to bake a mouth-watering, fluffy and delectable cake?


Are you the kind of person that likes to read the instructions carefully first or are you more inclined to ‘try to figure it all on your own’ and refer to the instructions in case of emergency?


Now I...

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About Bonita's Blog

Bonita is passionate about the remarkable depth and power of the human spirit!


She believes we are all masterful creators of our lives, that we all have the answers within us and that it is possible to live our best lives, right now!

Bonita's blog is a collection of poetry, stories, experiences and articles shared from her personal life journey.


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